What people are saying about The Alchemy of Love & Marriage
“Explains the stuff no one talks about. This is an uplifting hopeful story that is helpful for married people, reflective for divorced people and an incentive for couples just starting out on how to live your life.....days after I read this book I am still thinking about it.”
— Amazon reader“Anyone who has ever been in a relationship will be able to relate to the message of this book. No one goes through love and marriage without experiencing the ups and downs. There are disagreements, conflicts, arguments, and fights. But like with anything else, it is how you respond together to these moments that ultimately determines how the elasticity of the relationship can be stretched. Dr. Arlene Sacks presents a guidebook on how to bounce back from the dark times of love and marriage.”
— Amazon reader“The book was so real…so well written…so real. Full of love and total sincerity… the writer poor her heart.. I highly recommend this book and it will help you in many, many ways…”
— Goodreads reader“This book gave me the strength and perseverance to “take the wheel” of my marriage….and turn it around.”
— Amazon reader“This book has the living-in-the-moment clarity of the poet, the high drama of the novelist, and the determined truth-telling of the nonfiction writer, all rolled into one. Dr. Sacks has revealed not only the strengths and weaknesses of her own marriage, but has brought a range of philosophical principles to bear on her subject, spanning eastern and western cultures, as well as centuries of thought. Her hope is to encourage marital partners to evaluate their own relationships, and build on what they have experienced, so that dreams become closer to being actualized. A tall order, but one nobly undertaken, with close scrutiny and the added insights derived from many writers. Throughout, the reader is encouraged by meaningful brief quotes from Sacks’ wide reading, drawing on some authors who may be familiar, and likely some who yield fresh perspectives. Much to ponder here, and such a gracious and captivating story we are given!”
— Carol Barrett, Ph.D., Author of "Pansies" and "Reading Wind"“I took my leisurely time reading because I needed to drink in and savor every word, concept, quote and life situation. Although I've never experienced a successful marriage, your book has left a profound impression of greater value, appreciation, respect and love for you and the life you and Howie built and shared. I can go on and on trying to express my emotions from your writing, but I need to stop. I have ordered a copy of your book for each of my married nephews and niece. The messages you impart with your life story must be shared. Thank you, Arlene, from the bottom of my heart for this treasured gift.”
— Personal review sent to ArleneWhat people are saying about Moving Forward
“An insight to the trauma and a path back to survival and resiliency.”
— Dr. Rosalyn Y. Brown Beatty, Mental Health Clinician and Trauma Expert“As a psychologist, I highly recommend this book to any woman experiencing the loss of a life partner. The process of moving forward described in this book is deliberate, practical, and courageous. In sharing her experience, Arlene Sacks offers encouragement and companionship to those undergoing this singularly lonely experience. For readers who have not lost their partner, this book may very well result in seeing one’s partner with fresh and appreciative eyes.”
— Amazon reader“I gave this book to a friend and it helped her so much, she said she never put it down.”
— Reddit reader“Arlene Sacks has beautifully written about her journey along with vignettes on other women. Each person must travel this road on a journey of their own, but the insight from Arlene and the other women gives a wonderful perspective on how they are moving forward. Each person gives insight into their personal journey. I have recommended this book to a few of my widow clients that are starting a support group. As a counselor, I highly recommend this book as a tool to help others walk this trail with support, knowing they are not alone.”
— Goodreads reader“Moving Forward by Arlene Sacks was an unbelievable help and amazing for anyone grieving a loved one, particularly anyone who has lost a life partner or anyone supporting someone who is recently widowed.”
— Reddit reader“If you know someone who has a death of a loved one that's imminent or you are that someone, read this book! I became a widow very unexpectedly and boy, I wish everyone around me had read this. The unexpected burden of being a widow is finding that extra ability to forgive during the most emotionally difficult time in your life.”
— Goodreads reader“Finding resilience in widowhood. Arlene Sacks’ Moving Forward takes her reader on a journey no one wants to make, but will, nonetheless, when a spouse or significant other dies. Her personal guide to widowhood is a lovingly crafted roadmap detailing the incredible relationship that Arlene and husband Howard forged together, and how that relationship moves forward even after Howard’s death. She describes their myriad preparations in the face of Howard’s diagnosis; the trauma of his loss, and her coping strategies for her day-to-day life not moving on, but moving forward.”
— Amazon reader“Moving Forward: The Widow’s Journey by Arlene Sacks beautifully combines genuine storytelling with practical wisdom, offering comfort and guidance to those navigating the deep waters of widowhood. As a thanatologist specializing in grief, I am particularly moved by Sacks' narrative style, which invites readers to feel seen and understood through her authentic and relatable stories. Sacks' compassionate approach encourages readers to honor their own grief, embracing the uniqueness of their loss while gently finding a way forward. This book is a valuable resource for anyone seeking support, connection, and hope.”
— Amazon reader